So it might not be my exact choice for hot guys, but not bad. I think I love the name of this post at The Frisky most of all.
Nerd Girl Porn: Hot Guys Playing Golf
Should I make it my life's ambition to compile my own collection of hot guys playing golf? I've already got one under my belt.
Let me share again my guaranteed 100% success vacation weight loss plan.
There are 20-something miles of Malibu beaches to be stalked run searching...and searching...for...
Lots of deep thoughts and revelations lately that I've been putting down on keyboard, before I post them out loud I'm sticking with completely not serious stuff that has popping into my head today.
First off TGIF!
Why do my ears turn into parabolic microphones (with amplifier) when it comes to people eating crunchy things or smacking while eating? Gaaawwwwwddd....
The pens at my doctors office, the ones that have anti-theft chopsticks attached, are drug company and HOTEL freebies. $ame doctor$ office where I no le$$ than 4 time$ had to $ign document$ $howing how aware I was of the cancellation and payment policie$
I have 34 days before leaving for vacation and need to shrink one size to fit into my warm weather clothes. That means 34 days of my trainer's dedication to the gym and cardio. I look ridiculous in my one pair of jeans and long sleeve tees everyday.... and I chose to spend money on the trainer rather than buying more clothes in a bigger size so I'm stuck until I make a difference. I keep forgetting to take my before pictures, but I need to do that soon so I can see some progress when I take the after.
Springtime, Cottonwood tress and lip gloss do no mix.
Why are the ladies at my nail salon so focused on whether or not I'm married yet?
And last but not least, some eye candy for a Friday:
A reason besides 24/7 flip flop wearing that have me convinced I need to live in Hawaii. I will run into him while he's visiting.
Ah...*slurp* Mr. Djimon Hounsou. He looks just as hot with his clothes on and I lurve the little bit of grey that is showing up in his beard, but really, clothes are so over rated.
Slowly but surely cutting the ex out of my life, my space and my computer.
After a heavy morning with the counselor and really focusing on what it truly is that has caused me the most sadness over the last two years and what I really need to concentrate on getting past, I was able to cut away a few more pieces of the Ex and his presence in my life.
I hadn't been able to do some of this to this point, I just didn't feel ready to let all that go. It's time for some more baby steps.
It was a bit melancholy, but I didn't cry. *huge sigh of relief* Little things like deleting pictures from my phone, packed up a few things like college alma mater sweatshirt/t-shirts (no offense to anyone *uh hem New Girl*, but I'm not going to walk around with Oklahoma or OSU all over my chest when I no longer have a reason), deleted him as a contact on my Skype account. That one was harder than the rest, mostly because I noticed that he had 3 contacts on there when I use to be the only one ... mini gut check.
I don't know why I had hesitated to do some of these things before, maybe I could only handle so much change at a time.
Still haven't deleted him completely and I'm not sure I ever will. There are tons of pictures from our adventures and will be things that I do keep that he gave to me or have memories. But it felt like some progress and closer to really completely moving on.
Random weekend fun stuff....
I had an awesome weekend. The first in a long time where I was more than just going thru the motions. I was engaged and having a lot of fun. AND AND AND I was checking out guys. *whoo hoo* Went to the driving range with one of my best friends and after we spent a long afternoon with wine & cheese flights, great conversation and a trip to Tar-zhay.
I've seen it before, but it had been on TV... this weekend I saw up close and personal Golf Eye-Candy! You heard me right golf and eye-candy in the same sentence. Keep in mind that I live in the Pacific Northwest, so we haven't had much sun .... but still....
Thank you to public ranges that not only don't have a dress code, they don't even require clothes to be worn. ;-)
**parting thought** I wonder what this guy would think if he knew just to the right and cut out of the picture is my girlfriend who was fake posing for the picture so we could get a shot of him.... *giggle*
Disappointment
Matthew did NOT take his shirt off in Ghost of Girlfriends Past. I thought it was part of his movie contracts. Damn shame. The movie was cute and I had a good time with Best Guy Friend, but really it can wait for video if you don’t HAVE to see it in the theater.
Little boys and the games they playThe Ex called on Friday. I hadn’t heard from him since the breakup day a little over a month ago. Instead of looking at the phone like it was on fire with the devil and then promptly flinging it out the window (suggested reaction of my girlfriends) my little fingers were drawn to that sucker like a magnet and I answered. It was about 3:30 and I was at work. Here it goes.
Me: Hello
He: Hey S (using my last name)
Me: Hi
He: What are you doing?
Me: I’m at work
He : Oh I’m sorry, that’s right it’s only 6:30 here isn’t it. Do you want me to call back later?
Me: Yeah
He: OK bye
Anyone want to look into the crystal ball and take a stab at this one? *bingo* He didn’t call again. Not sure what the point of that little exercise was. Jackass.
One other comment… the use of my last name use to be endearing, now it makes me angry.
You know, there's nothing like a really good dude friend to help get a perspective on things after a break up. Well, that, and it's good to hear some positive feel good stuff from a guy you trust won't break your heart. Disclaimer: This sure does not overshadow or take the place of the girlfriends, it's just a different perspective that adds to the healing power of friendship.
Best guy friend: I've really been thinking about this, a lot. Trying to figure out why a guy would end things like that or why this happened at all. You know S, he just wasn't ready for his blessings.
Wow. I'm holding on to that one sentence for dear life right now!
It gets better, to sweeten the feel good pot, he's taking me to see eye candy tonight. Matthew McConaughey - Ghosts of Girlfriends Past.
TGIF and amen for a good dose of positive feelings and some easy on the eyes movie watching to look forward to.
Not that you don't already know, but I'm preparing myself for the evening so thought I'd share. *swoon*
