tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293434173077787645.post1310513046193961166..comments2023-09-27T02:57:44.577-07:00Comments on What was I thinking?!?: Aye yi yi...SShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10367833834387957912noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293434173077787645.post-53183887180986387052009-06-03T19:02:13.202-07:002009-06-03T19:02:13.202-07:00Part of the fun of "growing up" is that ...Part of the fun of "growing up" is that we never really do... And, yeah, we can kind of move past the angsty part of it, but sometimes being a kid is just... Well, FUN.<br /><br />Except for when the ex pops up again. <br /><br />I don't know the backstory. But I read your last several posts. (All of which, I'm assuming, were written post-breakup.) And, while I envy you the experience of having the jerk (may I call him that?) apologize for stuff (I have an ex who didn't bother. LOL!), I think that sometimes boys need to learn how to treat girls right the FIRST time. How many second chances do we give them??<br /><br />*ducks flying forks*<br /><br />Anyway, I like your therapist.<br /><br />:)RetroMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12841281782826459649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293434173077787645.post-56738553245965831202009-06-03T07:23:39.203-07:002009-06-03T07:23:39.203-07:00good luck....
and for what its worth, i dont thi...good luck.... <br /><br />and for what its worth, i dont think you ever figure life out. Or perhaps when you do thats the end of the game. Much as I'd like to have it all squared away I figure its just part of keeping on.The Mrs.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05390271129994451360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293434173077787645.post-51384520483794909872009-06-03T06:57:22.548-07:002009-06-03T06:57:22.548-07:00Can I just say, "Grrrrr...."?
I don'...Can I just say, "Grrrrr...."?<br /><br />I don't know him or the details of the relationship but it just seems <i>really convenient</i> that he's deploying soon.<br /><br />Then again, I may just be projecting my own crap on your situation. <br /><br />Ok, I am projecting my own crap. Sorry about that.<br /><br />Only you know what is best for you. And if he really believes that he wants you back, you should be able to take all the time in the world to make your decision. Including deployment time too.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293434173077787645.post-89145075041347429752009-06-03T06:37:48.727-07:002009-06-03T06:37:48.727-07:00Ok, so for what's its worth, I'm going to ...Ok, so for what's its worth, I'm going to throw my two cents in on this. You can take it or overlook it. <br /><br />I know exactly how you feel. Life shouldn't be like this when your an adult. This is the type of things you leave behind once you turn the age of 21 at the LATEST! However, with that being said sometimes people make HUGE mistakes and then spend forever trying to make up for them. <br /><br />I had a friend who was dating a guy and he did pretty much what it sounds like you've shared on here about your ex. They didn't speak for months. Then one day out of the blue he called her. She reluctantly agreed to meet up with him and that's when he BEGGED for forgiveness. He told her that he wanted her back, etc etc. Well he was deploying 4 months later. By the time he deployed in Dec. they were engaged. They're getting married in Feb. <br /><br />I think you have to follow your heart and if you can give out a second chance then it might be worth it in the end.Crazy Shenanigans-JMOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03494603714481735184noreply@blogger.com